![]() You mean the world to me, and I don't ever want to lose you, but I don't know if I can do that." On the flip side, a lot of guys don't feel comfortable going to their woman and saying, "Hey, look, I'm not at a space where I can just say I'm cool with having sex with you and you alone for the rest of my life. I've talked to women who even feel they can't tell guys or their guy what they're into sexually because they think he will judge them. But unfortunately, most people don't create a safe space for their partners to come and say anything. My best situations are the ones where the girl and I were so cool, and our friendship was so intact, it felt like I could say anything to her. You must start from a place of extreme trust, respect, and friendship.ĭaley: I definitely agree with what he just said. The biggest lesson I took from it is that the relationship has to start with open lines of communication because it's very hard to open them after. I wasn't being honest with myself, which in turn led to not being honest with the person I was with. I've been in a long-term faithful relationship for four or five years, and I've also been in a relationship where I cheated multiple times because I just wasn't being honest. Nineteen85: I've been caught cheating before. Are there any specific moments in past relationships that inspired your views on relationships enough to bring us this song? A lot of people don't realize that cheating is more about the ego than anything. I was addressing it from the standpoint of explaining how isn’t happening, but even if it did hypothetically, it wouldn't have been because I fell out of love with you. I'm addressing it from the perspective of someone that's wondering where this is coming from. She thinks that it might be possible that I'm out here doing things I shouldn't be doing. Really what I'm talking about is a relationship in those verses where my partner is now insecure and feels like I might be doing something. ![]() I don't know if everyone's even fully digested the song yet. Third of all, that's not what the song is saying." They've said, "Oh, so you're admitting you're a ho." I'm like, "First of all, I'm not a ho. No, one's been trying to get into a real debate with me. But, it's all in jest, for the most part of it. ![]() I can't lie the song is catchy, though." So, I've had a little bit of both. Men's Health: Since the song's release, have any of your exes or current partners reached out with their own opinions about it-or about you?ĭaniel Daley: I've definitely had a few texts and DMs from people I haven't talked to or seen in a while that have been like, "So, I heard your new song (laughs)." Just before I got on this call, people were sending me videos of it being on the radio in their city and were like, "I hate that I'm forced to hear you right now. No three-minute song can hold a nuanced conversation on cheating, so we caught up with the pair to have the tough chat they hope everyone else will have with their significant other. "When you are in a relationship with someone, sometimes there are things you need to discuss or figure out inside your relationship before you go out." It's not an us versus them thing," Nineteen85 told Men's Health. "A lot of people are taking this song as a man versus women thing. Jay-Z himself even implied it was the most toxic song he's ever heard.īut DVSN, comprised of Canadian singer Daniel Daley and producer Paul "Nineteen85" Jefferies, pushes back on the criticism. The song openly wonders if one sexual indiscretion should break up a loving relationship, and its chorus brazenly declares, "if I get caught cheating, that don't mean I don't love you." Many have reduced the song to simply being a cheating anthem and denounced it as misogynistic male ego stroking. Cheating and love don't mix unless you're listening to R&B duo DVSN.ĭrake's OVO Sound artists' polarizing single, "If I Get Caught," has people up in arms and in their feelings defending what they view as dealbreakers in their relationships, and for good reason.
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